Purpose remains a mystery!

One winter morning when the house was still dark and I woke up to the cold breeze rushing outside the window, I could not stop but think about the speed with that each day rushes and never acknowledges to stop and ask, "Do you want me to rewind? Do you want to edit?" Nothing! It just moves on and on. It is just like a book wherein when a page gets filled, you turn and start with the next; except, you don't get to turn back and live those happy moments again. It is a never ending process with no awareness as to how and when it is about to end unlike a book where you may actually see how close you are to the end.

Life continues seamlessly and then abruptly ends. People try make sense of it by being successful according to their own understanding and perception. They find ways to keep themselves engaged and going. The point is - what if you are working on something that is the aim and purpose of your life and as the next page comes i.e. the next day,  it turns out to be the end - the last page of your life. Oops!! The only aim to which you dedicated your entire being remains unfulfilled. What was the purpose of such a life wherein you never know when the end is approaching?

But nevertheless, people continue to live with all the zeal and fervor. Hats off to us HUMANS!

LIFE OF AN...

CRAVING - never ends. SATISFACTION - never achieved. THINKING - never stops. DREAMS - never fades. PROBLEM - never ceases.

An Optimist may not admit in public, but his issues also remain the same. A Pessimist makes sure that what he feels or suffers should spread across like a plaque. In between an Average person suffers.

Achievers continue achieving. Dreamers keep dreaming and an Average person dies of not making it big.

Philosophers spread their thoughts and knowledge through speeches, Writers throw in words to describe themselves and their beliefs, but an Average person write diaries or blogs which remains unpublished.

Smart ones / lucky ones discover their area of interest and get famous. Losers accept their defeat and think that nothing can be achieved until and unless God wants them to, but an Average person wakes every day dreaming and dies with regret every second.

Determined ones, despite of all difficulties achieve and fulfill their desire. Lazy people accept their inability to perform task and bend in with what each day brings, but an Average person dreams, desires, believes but fails to form a courage or thirst to achieve because of his laid back attitude.

Earn respect, health, love, confidence, and desire. Don't ever lose it because of the fear of fate, laziness or failure.

Live life the king size, otherwise just disappear!!

Letter from God!

Hey! Hi Humans...Hey!! Is anybody listening? 

Hold on! Where is everybody busy? What are you all running behind? MONEY.. Ohh!! You got me all wrong kids. I didn't send you in there to become this? I see there is nothing left in your lives except money. Everybody is just spending all their lives in making money. I know you all had to come out with something so that the resources are used judicially but I see that this main objective is lost. You all seem to eat, think and sleep money men!! I don’t hear prayers asking for a peaceful life anymore. 

Help me decide get a good career, please find a nice job, do something for the promotion, increase my salary, show me other modes to earn money - is all I get to hear these days. Yes, all those demands for iphone, Louis Vuitton, Prada, Ferrari, play station and blah blah….doesn't seem to end.

You all have made this so complicated. Yes, that’s true I didn’t send you all with a guide book stating all the rules and stuff but come on guys I gave you such a beautiful surrounding, amazing waterfalls, mountains and such a wonderful environment to live in, but again who has time to enjoy all this? You all spend your life first dreaming about becoming rich, then studying to fulfill those dreams, then you get into dull jobs about which you all don’t stop cribbing and vent out your frustrations on some 'weekends' (that’s what you people termed it as, right?), then spending that money to educate more humans (yeah yeah…..your kids!) and then when it’s time for you to come to me you realize, ohh! What did I do? I actually didn’t enjoy my life. Yes, those saving schemes, early retirements and all give you some time to live your life but that doesn't solve the purpose.

Okay okay! I really do appreciate your inventions and discoveries which will help the coming generations even after you leave earth but do you realize everything has to come to an end (don’t be disheartened). See, what I need to remind you all is that don’t make it so very complicated that in order to even breathe you need to pay few bucks. Basically, take a chill pill and live your life not only by earning money but really living it. Stop judging people by the amount of money they earn or by their big houses or expensive wear because remember I didn’t create all this or send you with a Louis Vuitton bag or some rich tag. I send you as cute babies with genuine hearts to live a beautiful and peaceful life full of love on earth and remember when you all come back to me all your money, property everything stays behind. No no…. the quality is much better here so we don’t really accept your stuff in here.

Do take time and think about all this. How you guys ignore the beautiful moments in life by just being so busy and complicating your life even further. 

Okay.. See ya! kids, I need to go. Birla’s are praying for something, I need to rush. You know these powerful people, you just can’t ignore them!

Husband or No Husband: Problem remains the same!

I talk to my best girl friend, my society friend, my building friend, my flat mate, my colleague, my travel friend, my occasional friend, my party friend etc etc.
The conversation most of the times come down a one and only topic 'Men'. No no nothing like what you guys are thinking. I mean the basic stuff.

Anyways, dog like sharp ears of mine always put me in trouble, but this time I overheard my maid telling my mom, " Madam, mai badi parreshan hu, merra marad mohe pyaaar nahi karta. Pehle to waqat se ghar aatta tha par aab pata nhi kaha rahta hai." oooohhhh thank God she didn't see me and I managed to slip out in time.

I tell you whether a man is rich or poor, black or white, tall or short, fat or smart, successful or unsuccessful, ferangi or desi, husband or no husband all are the same.

Dear adjusting and understanding Ladies,
The very regular statements which you keep worrying about:

- He is not the same anymore.

- Is he having an affair?

- Don't I look attractive and smart, like i used to?

- How come all of a sudden he is so busy, like it seems that the whole     
  universe's work load is on him.

- Initially, his way of relaxation was talking to me and spending time with me,   
  now it is through sitting ideally in peace, watching violent movies and playing     irritating games.

- Was all the initial love was to get me to bed?

- In the starting, it was him who wanted to spend time with me, talk to me. Now
  it seems its only me who wants all this.

- He used to be so understanding, now why suddenly this change?

- Have I made myself very much available for him?

- Does romance last only an year to the max.

STOP STOP Girlzz.... 

All I want to say is that forget that they have changed or not because worrying about this won't help. Firstly don't consider them to be as our own personnel toy. Stop... just be the one you used to be in the starting.

You want to live happily with them so stop expecting, stop doing things for them out of the way, think of yourself, treat him normally like you use to in your initial days, not like some God. Continue living your social life which strictly does not include him. Most important, if you are in an affair, don't bring in the top of marriage yourself..a big No.. if you do that, you are unknowable compelling him to leave you.

Hope this helps, but we ladies are way to emotional. Best way, don't stop eyeing handsome men around you because believe me they haven't either.

Lots of Love,

Just Relax!

Today's generation has omitted the word 'Patience' from their dictionary. 

Restlessness, desperation, expectation have become so very common and are so badly stuffed into a youth's genes. Every single person is frustrated from his or her life. If they have money, they want love. If they have both they want peace. If they have all three, the problem is on how to manage it. If at all they do all of this well, their is a health issue bothering them. If all these are stable, then they want more and more of what they already have.

These wants and desires will never ever end neither will they come one by one seeing your convenience. So, guys just relax and please take life as it comes, give each moment its best shot so that your future can be made wonderful and awesome just like your dreams.

No title! coz that limit things.

This very second I wish to do so much like talk on phone, paint as I am in my room lying alone, but in between I realize I should instead be thankful to God for giving me some time alone so that I can see myself, face my reality, understand my place/ my very reason of existence in this world.

What everybody is running behind? when each one of us know that one fine day we all have to leave all the earthy pleasures behind. May be this is the way to engage ourselves and meanwhile forget the hard reality.

Why creations are made to be destroyed? why everybody is destined to get over some day? Questions which remain a mystery for me and will always be so.

Alas! I am here thinking about myself. what lies intact for me in my future? Well, these are very far off things. Lets leave them for now and talk about my child self.

I so much want this day to start again, that weather to appear again, that rain to pour upon me, that wind to blow again which took me to a totally different world.

This craving and asking for things would never end until I am drawn into my dreams, which seems to be the only way to run off my thoughts/ or reality and relax for a while.

Expectations!

Its a key to one's failure, destruction or to one's success, fame.

Expecting from others is dangerous, it makes you like a parasite you think of people, depend on them. Your move, your thoughts might seem independent but are very much guided by those you expect from.

While expecting from oneself can make you do wonders, enrich your soul, reveal your potential, make you the master of mankind, pour upon you the fame never imagined. 
But humans are controlled by their emotions, its not the other way round, learning it the other way calls for lots of discipline, concentration, understanding that comes with self realization and control.

If it happens the other way, as in most of the cases it does, life becomes a challenge, a never ending fight. Every second seems to be a struggle; a struggle of choosing from the various options that come from the parasite called emotions.

Someone said,"life is not an easy task, but to make it easy is our task" applies to every account of human life.

Also a saying, " guide the wind, else it will misguide you".

First and the most important thing that humans need to learn is to cram the power of control. Master your thoughts, or it will master you.

What life has taught me with time is to control one's emotions, reactions, actions, guide them and use them with tactics and then you will see the whole world moving under your guidance.

Love people, but not to an extent that it destroys you, help people but in boundaries set by yourself, guide people to an extent that they don't misguide you. Learn from every second of your existence. Don't be the game, try to be the master of the game. 
Love life so hard, that it thinks twice before ditching you.