LIFE OF AN...

CRAVING - never ends. SATISFACTION - never achieved. THINKING - never stops. DREAMS - never fades. PROBLEM - never ceases.

An Optimist may not admit in public, but his issues also remain the same. A Pessimist makes sure that what he feels or suffers should spread across like a plaque. In between an Average person suffers.

Achievers continue achieving. Dreamers keep dreaming and an Average person dies of not making it big.

Philosophers spread their thoughts and knowledge through speeches, Writers throw in words to describe themselves and their beliefs, but an Average person write diaries or blogs which remains unpublished.

Smart ones / lucky ones discover their area of interest and get famous. Losers accept their defeat and think that nothing can be achieved until and unless God wants them to, but an Average person wakes every day dreaming and dies with regret every second.

Determined ones, despite of all difficulties achieve and fulfill their desire. Lazy people accept their inability to perform task and bend in with what each day brings, but an Average person dreams, desires, believes but fails to form a courage or thirst to achieve because of his laid back attitude.

Earn respect, health, love, confidence, and desire. Don't ever lose it because of the fear of fate, laziness or failure.

Live life the king size, otherwise just disappear!!

Letter from God!

Hey! Hi Humans...Hey!! Is anybody listening? 

Hold on! Where is everybody busy? What are you all running behind? MONEY.. Ohh!! You got me all wrong kids. I didn't send you in there to become this? I see there is nothing left in your lives except money. Everybody is just spending all their lives in making money. I know you all had to come out with something so that the resources are used judicially but I see that this main objective is lost. You all seem to eat, think and sleep money men!! I don’t hear prayers asking for a peaceful life anymore. 

Help me decide get a good career, please find a nice job, do something for the promotion, increase my salary, show me other modes to earn money - is all I get to hear these days. Yes, all those demands for iphone, Louis Vuitton, Prada, Ferrari, play station and blah blah….doesn't seem to end.

You all have made this so complicated. Yes, that’s true I didn’t send you all with a guide book stating all the rules and stuff but come on guys I gave you such a beautiful surrounding, amazing waterfalls, mountains and such a wonderful environment to live in, but again who has time to enjoy all this? You all spend your life first dreaming about becoming rich, then studying to fulfill those dreams, then you get into dull jobs about which you all don’t stop cribbing and vent out your frustrations on some 'weekends' (that’s what you people termed it as, right?), then spending that money to educate more humans (yeah yeah…..your kids!) and then when it’s time for you to come to me you realize, ohh! What did I do? I actually didn’t enjoy my life. Yes, those saving schemes, early retirements and all give you some time to live your life but that doesn't solve the purpose.

Okay okay! I really do appreciate your inventions and discoveries which will help the coming generations even after you leave earth but do you realize everything has to come to an end (don’t be disheartened). See, what I need to remind you all is that don’t make it so very complicated that in order to even breathe you need to pay few bucks. Basically, take a chill pill and live your life not only by earning money but really living it. Stop judging people by the amount of money they earn or by their big houses or expensive wear because remember I didn’t create all this or send you with a Louis Vuitton bag or some rich tag. I send you as cute babies with genuine hearts to live a beautiful and peaceful life full of love on earth and remember when you all come back to me all your money, property everything stays behind. No no…. the quality is much better here so we don’t really accept your stuff in here.

Do take time and think about all this. How you guys ignore the beautiful moments in life by just being so busy and complicating your life even further. 

Okay.. See ya! kids, I need to go. Birla’s are praying for something, I need to rush. You know these powerful people, you just can’t ignore them!

Husband or No Husband: Problem remains the same!

I talk to my best girl friend, my society friend, my building friend, my flat mate, my colleague, my travel friend, my occasional friend, my party friend etc etc.
The conversation most of the times come down a one and only topic 'Men'. No no nothing like what you guys are thinking. I mean the basic stuff.

Anyways, dog like sharp ears of mine always put me in trouble, but this time I overheard my maid telling my mom, " Madam, mai badi parreshan hu, merra marad mohe pyaaar nahi karta. Pehle to waqat se ghar aatta tha par aab pata nhi kaha rahta hai." oooohhhh thank God she didn't see me and I managed to slip out in time.

I tell you whether a man is rich or poor, black or white, tall or short, fat or smart, successful or unsuccessful, ferangi or desi, husband or no husband all are the same.

Dear adjusting and understanding Ladies,
The very regular statements which you keep worrying about:

- He is not the same anymore.

- Is he having an affair?

- Don't I look attractive and smart, like i used to?

- How come all of a sudden he is so busy, like it seems that the whole     
  universe's work load is on him.

- Initially, his way of relaxation was talking to me and spending time with me,   
  now it is through sitting ideally in peace, watching violent movies and playing     irritating games.

- Was all the initial love was to get me to bed?

- In the starting, it was him who wanted to spend time with me, talk to me. Now
  it seems its only me who wants all this.

- He used to be so understanding, now why suddenly this change?

- Have I made myself very much available for him?

- Does romance last only an year to the max.

STOP STOP Girlzz.... 

All I want to say is that forget that they have changed or not because worrying about this won't help. Firstly don't consider them to be as our own personnel toy. Stop... just be the one you used to be in the starting.

You want to live happily with them so stop expecting, stop doing things for them out of the way, think of yourself, treat him normally like you use to in your initial days, not like some God. Continue living your social life which strictly does not include him. Most important, if you are in an affair, don't bring in the top of marriage yourself..a big No.. if you do that, you are unknowable compelling him to leave you.

Hope this helps, but we ladies are way to emotional. Best way, don't stop eyeing handsome men around you because believe me they haven't either.

Lots of Love,