I talk to my best girl friend, my society friend, my building friend, my flat mate, my colleague, my travel friend, my occasional friend, my party friend etc etc.
The conversation most of the times come down a one and only topic 'Men'. No no nothing like what you guys are thinking. I mean the basic stuff.
Anyways, dog like sharp ears of mine always put me in trouble, but this time I overheard my maid telling my mom, " Madam, mai badi parreshan hu, merra marad mohe pyaaar nahi karta. Pehle to waqat se ghar aatta tha par aab pata nhi kaha rahta hai." oooohhhh thank God she didn't see me and I managed to slip out in time.
I tell you whether a man is rich or poor, black or white, tall or short, fat or smart, successful or unsuccessful, ferangi or desi, husband or no husband all are the same.
Dear adjusting and understanding Ladies,
The very regular statements which you keep worrying about:
- He is not the same anymore.
- Is he having an affair?
- Don't I look attractive and smart, like i used to?
- How come all of a sudden he is so busy, like it seems that the whole
universe's work load is on him.
- Initially, his way of relaxation was talking to me and spending time with me,
now it is through sitting ideally in peace, watching violent movies and playing irritating games.
- Was all the initial love was to get me to bed?
- In the starting, it was him who wanted to spend time with me, talk to me. Now
it seems its only me who wants all this.
- He used to be so understanding, now why suddenly this change?
- Have I made myself very much available for him?
- Does romance last only an year to the max.
STOP STOP Girlzz....
Lots of Love,
The conversation most of the times come down a one and only topic 'Men'. No no nothing like what you guys are thinking. I mean the basic stuff.
Anyways, dog like sharp ears of mine always put me in trouble, but this time I overheard my maid telling my mom, " Madam, mai badi parreshan hu, merra marad mohe pyaaar nahi karta. Pehle to waqat se ghar aatta tha par aab pata nhi kaha rahta hai." oooohhhh thank God she didn't see me and I managed to slip out in time.
I tell you whether a man is rich or poor, black or white, tall or short, fat or smart, successful or unsuccessful, ferangi or desi, husband or no husband all are the same.
Dear adjusting and understanding Ladies,
The very regular statements which you keep worrying about:
- He is not the same anymore.
- Is he having an affair?
- Don't I look attractive and smart, like i used to?
- How come all of a sudden he is so busy, like it seems that the whole
universe's work load is on him.
- Initially, his way of relaxation was talking to me and spending time with me,
now it is through sitting ideally in peace, watching violent movies and playing irritating games.
- Was all the initial love was to get me to bed?
- In the starting, it was him who wanted to spend time with me, talk to me. Now
it seems its only me who wants all this.
- He used to be so understanding, now why suddenly this change?
- Have I made myself very much available for him?
- Does romance last only an year to the max.
STOP STOP Girlzz....
All I want to say is that forget that they have changed or not because worrying about this won't help. Firstly don't consider them to be as our own personnel toy. Stop... just be the one you used to be in the starting.
You want to live happily with them so stop expecting, stop doing things for them out of the way, think of yourself, treat him normally like you use to in your initial days, not like some God. Continue living your social life which strictly does not include him. Most important, if you are in an affair, don't bring in the top of marriage yourself..a big No.. if you do that, you are unknowable compelling him to leave you.
Hope this helps, but we ladies are way to emotional. Best way, don't stop eyeing handsome men around you because believe me they haven't either.
Lots of Love,
